Tea For Two...Or Just For You

Christmas came early in our house this year,as it often does due to our work schedules. Since both my fiance and I have to work Christmas Eve and Day, we held our Christmas celebration over our weekend this past Tuesday. When we first came to the arrangement of celebrating our Christmas early, I was actually quite against it. Growing up, we were never allowed to open any gifts early and there was a solid emphasis on "Christmas Day being Christmas Day." However, in my adult life, I have come to understand that the day really isn't about the date, but more about celebrating with the ones you love. Whatever you need to do to make that happen justifies Christmas in my book.
Well, needless to say we had a wonderful and relaxing time, just as we had hoped for. It's kind of nice now to be able to sit back and watch everyone else bustling around with that glazed-over look in their eyes, and not to feel the slightest bit stressed out myself. In fact, this calm, nonchalant attitude is exactly what I will need to get me through the next three days of chaos at work. Without it, I could most certainly crash and burn with a slew of Christmas-Sweater-Clad Crazy Guests pushing me down into the flames.
But back to the matter at hand, Christmas. We both received some wonderful gifts this year, mostly sensible, but all much needed and appreciated. One of my absolute favorites is a lime green loose leaf tea pot that brews two perfect cups of tea. I have been wanting a loose leaf pot for quite some time for a variety of reasons, and know this one will certainly be put to good use. Besides the fact that it eliminates so much waste in terms of packaging, it also allows me to explore the world of tea, and not just be restricted to the brands sold on the grocery store shelf. Also let's not forget the fact that it's lime green! Just seeing a new burst of color in my kitchen has inspired me to try to incorporate other bright and lively colors into my kitchen decor.
My first stop on my tea exploration is going to be The Tao of Tea on Se Belmont Ave. in Portland. The Tao (pronounced dao) is a Portland based company with an amazing mission statement and a genuine love of tea and the tea making process. We recently began offering their teas at my restaurant and they are truly delicious. The Tao consists of a luxurious and relaxing tearoom and a retail shop attached next door to purchase their teas and accessories. Visit their website and you will see how many exceptional varieties of organic and fair trade teas that they offer. Of course, a link will be posted under My Favorite Portland Places for your own exploration and enjoyment. I think I feel a new obsession coming on...

Tree Decorating Party a Success!

We had a great time having a few friends over and putting up the tree. It was a small get together, but sharing the experience with friends definitely made it feel more like the holidays! Here are a few pictures of the results.

It's Beginninng to Look a Lot Like Christmas

Well the holidays are most certainly upon us, and I am already officially turkeyed out. We've had turkey dinner, turkey sandwiches, turkey salad and turkey soup, all of which have been extremely delicious and prepared with care by my wonderful fiance. However, I've been wondering why I've been sleeping an extra two hours a night, and I think I might finally have my answer-TURKEY!
Last year was a difficult holiday season for us,as I was out of work and on a very strict budget. This year I am really looking forward to doing all the things we missed out on in 2009. First things first, we are hanging lights on the house, and white icicle lights at that! Last year we couldn't afford elevated electric bills,let alone gifts for each other. I am so excited to be engaged this holiday season and be able to buy my honey some great gifts. I started with an absolutely beautiful Christmas ornament, a big bejeweled "K", since we will be celebrating all Christmases after this one as the Kelseys!!!
Can you tell I'm excited? I'm also really looking forward to celebrating with friends, starting with a tree decorating party tomorrow, complete with holiday music and lots of Bailey's. We all know Christmas isn't Christmas without Bailey's, especially if you're a part of my family....
Something else to look forward to is a stroll down Peacock Lane with our good friends next week. In the 9 years I've lived in Portland I've never seen Peacock Lane, but have heard it is an absolutely magnificent display of lights nestled in one of Southeast Portland's most charming neighborhoods. I can't wait to get all bundled up and fill my coffee mug with Bailey's! Maybe I'll even wear my festive holiday vest...
There is so much more to look forward to this holiday season and to be thankful for. Just being able to walk is high up on my list (oh and being able to hit the gym to work off all the turkey and Bailey's). It is early in December so I'm sure a few more holiday posts will be on the way. In fact, this Thursday the Portland Christmas Ships will hit the Riverplace Marina sending diners at a certain waterfront restaurant into an absolutely ridiculous frenzy. Stay tuned for more on that and check out the link under "Portland Places" if you want to learn more about Peacock Lane.

How Much is too Much?

In the recent election, a certain candidate running for governor declared that Oregon waiters and waitresses make too much money. He stated that if elected, he would lower the minimum wage for service workers, paying them less than the minimum wage because they received tips. Now, I know this is the case in many other states, including Massachusetts, where I lived for many years. Luckily, I was never a server when I lived there, so it didn't affect me. Now, after being a server for over six years, I am appalled that it is considered decent to pay, perhaps some of the hardest working people in America, less than minimum wage. So I ask the question now, how much is too much for service workers to make?
A recent conversation with a co-worker and close friend brought this issue to the forefront for me. Obviously I did not vote for the candidate above, and he did lose the election probably because so many Oregonians do work in the service industry. But what about those who don't? Do they have any idea what it takes to wait on people day in and day out? If I had a reality show, I would make high powered corporate executives and business people become servers for a day, and then laugh my butt off as I watched them fail miserably. Service is perhaps one of the most taxing industries in today's economy, and one that is so often overlooked, snubbed and taken for granted. I can't tell you how many times I have had a guest, friend or even family member ask me when I am going to get a real job. As if there is no validity or merit to the job I do have, and, if I might add, am extremely successful at.
So many people believe that as a server, or busser or dishwasher, you are less intelligent, less driven, less responsible and less successful than the rest of society. But what would the rest of society do without this class of workers? Who would provide the service expected,and do it with a smile on their face? And how is it right to believe that we should be payed less than the minimum wage, when no one else wants to do this job anyway. Honestly, the whole conversation is too much for me sometimes.
True, I could walk our of a four hour shift with $300 in my pocket, but I could also be snapped at, beckoned and treated rudely by a guest in order to make that $300. I could also walk out of a four hour shift with $30 in my pocket, and rent due the next day, having no control over the fact that I can't pay it. I could be extremely diligent and efficient in my service and receive no tip at all because a guest doesn't believe I deserve a tip, or because they come from a culture that doesn't include tipping in their society. With so many factors out of my control regarding the money that I make, who in their right mind would believe that I should make less than the minimum wage? In fact, doesn't it make sense that service workers should make more than the minimum wage, since the tips they earn are so unreliable?
What do you think? How much is too much for a service worker's wage? Comments would be much appreciated.

New Post Coming Soon

Don't give up on Me yet! I promise a new post after this weekend!

Coast to Coast & Wedding Woes

Well I'm back from vacation and finally getting caught up on things, so I suppose it's time for a little update on how things have been going since we went back East. Honestly it has been quite a whirlwind since getting engaged three weeks ago. It almost feels like there wasn't enough time to actually let the engagement sink in, since we traveled 3,000 miles and then got bombarded with lots of congratulations and questions. Number one on the list right now; "When's the date!?!". This question alone brings on a slight feeling of nausea and sends a shudder through my entire body. Don't get me wrong, it was amazing visiting with my best friends and family, and so wonderful to see how well everyone is doing, it was just a lot to take in all at once. So it feels quite good to back to real life and the normal routine.
Now that we have been home for just about a week, the reality of getting married is finally starting to sink in, and it is one of the most overwhelming feelings I have ever experienced. The idea of marrying my man is the least of it, as I feel I could do it today without any qualms or anxiety whatsoever. It's the planning of the whole "affair" that has me running for the hills and daydreaming of elopement. I mean seriously, it seems to me like the whole wedding industry is a complete ripoff. Talking to couples that have been recently married, the general consensus is that the average wedding costs about $25,000. Are you kidding me? Personally, I can think of a million better ways to spend that amount of money than to throw a party for myself.
As I research weddings further, and start to really explore what I want and what matters to me, I wonder if a wedding is even my cup of tea. Between food and flowers and music and venues, it feels like the emotion,commitment and dedication that a couple has for each other can really get lost in the shuffle. This is the last thing I want to happen to Us. And speaking of Us, that's who it's truly about anyway. I wish more couples could realize this early on and save themselves a whole lot of stress and heartache.
So where does that leave my wedding? I honestly don't know. Everyone who knows me knows I love a good party, and I do expect to throw a celebration at some point, I just don't know how or when. One thing I do know for sure is that I can't wait to become a Mrs., and it may happen sooner than anyone thinks. So stay tuned, we just might surprise you.

Going to the Chapel...

Well if you haven't heard the news, it's official, We're engaged!!!!
Realistically I doubt my wedding will actually be in a chapel or church, but I haven't been able to get that catchy old tune out of my head since my fiance first popped the question. Right now even saying the word fiance sounds kind of funny, especially after being with "my boyfriend" for five years, but over time I think I will be able to get used to it. This is such an exciting time and I have so many thoughts and ideas constantly streaming through my mind at a very fast pace, that it's hard to wrap my head around an actual wedding. The best thing about it is, I don't have to yet. I think the first step will be to set a date, which we will probably do in the next week or so. From there, I am just going to try to keep it calm and simple, and enjoy every step of the process of planning the happiest day of my life. I'm marrying my best friend!
So be prepared Pdxers, over the next year you are going to be hearing a lot about weddings and the planning process. For those of you who live in Portland, I would appreciate and welcome any and all suggestions or helpful hints you can offer. In exchange, I promise to do my absolute best not to become a Bridezilla...let the games begin!